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Phobias
Apr 29, 2005 22:43:53 GMT -5
Post by KiddoFreak on Apr 29, 2005 22:43:53 GMT -5
Oh, lets see: I'm afraid of being inferior. Like, being completely terrible at something. Which is probably why I'm not very good at anything. I'm afraid of messing up. Either by saying something wrong, or doing something wrong. I'm afraid of people not liking me. To any degree. This is probably why I'm so terrible at choosing sides and being decisive. I'm afraid of big crowds. This is pretty much a culmination of all of those above. If people are better than me at something, I am inferior, this makes me feel like I'm messing up, and that makes me feel like people don't respect me, thus not liking me. The loud noise doesnt help either. I think that is all for now.
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Phobias
Apr 29, 2005 22:47:05 GMT -5
Post by Lobstrosity on Apr 29, 2005 22:47:05 GMT -5
okay... Where everyone else is afraid of death related stuff, you seem to be afraid of social related stuff... Interesting.
KiddoFreak says: Humans have the ability to contemplate their own deaths; it's really hard being your own psychiatrist. Beleive me.
KiddoFreak: CRAP, sorry lobby, I meant to click reply and I clicked modify instead... whoops.
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Phobias
Apr 30, 2005 13:32:13 GMT -5
Post by Umbrafire on Apr 30, 2005 13:32:13 GMT -5
out of curiosity, how did u do that? they're not even next to each other... anyway, a while ago, I used to be afraia of eternity. imagine, just never, ever, having your life end, living it out in heaven, where you've done everything, and it will never, ever, end. never. *shudder* sometimes it still does bug me, but usually not.
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Phobias
May 1, 2005 19:55:28 GMT -5
Post by chica on May 1, 2005 19:55:28 GMT -5
but it would be a nice eternity. you could live forever in heaven. don't you think it would be fun? I mean yeah after a while I guess it would get boring but would you rather just die and then disappear and never be alive? or just not exist?
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Phobias
May 1, 2005 20:17:29 GMT -5
Post by Lobstrosity on May 1, 2005 20:17:29 GMT -5
I think that if you believe in heaven, when you die you won't care about things that happen on Earth. Also if you beleive that after death, you won't exist, then you won't care about anything after you die. That's why i'm not worried about anything death related really.
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Phobias
May 2, 2005 15:59:50 GMT -5
Post by Umbrafire on May 2, 2005 15:59:50 GMT -5
wow, what a great way to think about it, I like that.
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Phobias
May 2, 2005 20:11:44 GMT -5
Post by chica on May 2, 2005 20:11:44 GMT -5
kind of looking at it like "whatever happens, happens so just deal with it" right? that's a good way.
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Phobias
May 2, 2005 20:38:11 GMT -5
Post by Lobstrosity on May 2, 2005 20:38:11 GMT -5
Yup, no point worrying about the inevitable, all you're gonna do is worry yourself to death.
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Phobias
May 3, 2005 16:52:32 GMT -5
Post by chica on May 3, 2005 16:52:32 GMT -5
and what is "the inevitable" ?
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Phobias
May 3, 2005 20:09:59 GMT -5
Post by Umbrafire on May 3, 2005 20:09:59 GMT -5
in·ev·i·ta·ble adj. Impossible to avoid or prevent. Invariably occurring or appearing; predictable: the inevitable changes of the seasons.
here's a saying that I have had on a piece of paper for a long time, it's words to live by:
Ain’t no sense worrying about things you ain’t got no control over, ‘cause if you ain’t got control, ain’t no sense worrying. And there ain’t no sense worrying about things you got control over, ‘cause if you got control, you ain’t got to worry. Either way, ain’t no sense worrying.
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Phobias
May 5, 2005 18:11:29 GMT -5
Post by chica on May 5, 2005 18:11:29 GMT -5
and yet people DO worry. hmmmm. weird.
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Phobias
May 5, 2005 20:43:12 GMT -5
Post by Umbrafire on May 5, 2005 20:43:12 GMT -5
people who worry more generally care more. if you didn't care about something, you wouldn't worry about it, would you?
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Phobias
May 5, 2005 21:02:18 GMT -5
Post by Lobstrosity on May 5, 2005 21:02:18 GMT -5
True, but people who generally care less can still worry more.
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Phobias
May 7, 2005 15:21:03 GMT -5
Post by chica on May 7, 2005 15:21:03 GMT -5
yes but worrying shows that a person cares. so if one worries more then it means they care more.
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Phobias
May 7, 2005 22:01:08 GMT -5
Post by Umbrafire on May 7, 2005 22:01:08 GMT -5
for instance, I tend to worry about my friends a lot, and that's because I care a lot abut my friends, cause they're always there for me
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